You are the only exception: It's never easy

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Tuesday, December 09, 2008

It's never easy

Life is back to normal, so normal that i cant get used to it. Everyday i just wake up, work, home and slp. Just dun feel like going out before or after work.

Todae at work, i heard the song "Is it over now" (my blog song) by tanya chua. It says tt "letting go is never easy", and it kept mi thinking about it.

I was thinking if one day i have to migrate to another country alone, will i be able to let go of everything i have in singapore? Lets not just say about migrating, how about going to other country to work for like 5 yrs, will i be able to just go without worrying the things i left behind in singapore? Who's gonna take care of my parents? What about my friends, are we going to lose contact with one another just like that?

Imagine how your parents will feel? They will encourage you. They love you too much, they want you to do well, but inside they are struggling.

How about relationship... When u and your partner quarrel with each other, or your partner/you find that both of you are not suitable or compatible to be together, or your partner/you have better plans in life that you have to leave each other, will you be able to let go? What if its a relationship of 10 yrs? 5 yrs or even 1 yr?

How will you partner feel? She/he loves you too much that they dun wanna stop you from pursuing better future, and inside they are struggling.

Letting go is very difficult and people who are able to do so are brave. Its not just you alone, people around you are affected too. After letting go, you'll have to cope. Coping is never easy too. You let go, you can cope, people around you may not be able to.

Most of the time, its a selfish decision.

It's just another emo entry. Anywae the walk home from bus stop with Alan was a gd one, we chatted quite a bit. He has been through what i'm going through now, we understand how each other feel.

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